Sir, you summed it up quite well. I agree that focus from sex-as-sin and risk-for-disease must shift to a higher elevation. Perhaps the focus has already shifted albeit in a different direction as I read about the recent "sex strike" by women in Togo; Well, that is in a lighter vein. The younger generation have a right to be educated about safe sex and encouraged to develop a healthy attitude towards this beautiful form of expression of love.