information for patients

Why do I need to talk to my healthcare provider about sexual health?
Many people feel that talking about sexual health can be awkward or embarrassing. But there are good reasons to start the conversation.

Some sexually transmitted infections (STIs) can cause lasting damage or become more serious the longer you wait. Enlisting the help of your healthcare provider is the first step in diagnosing and treating any sexually transmitted infection—and protecting your sexual health.

But I'm not at risk for STIs! Am I?
Lots of people believe they are not at risk for STIs. But STIs are the nation’s most common type of infection. Even people who have had only one sexual partner can have an STI.

You are AT RISK if:

• You or your partner have ever had another partner
• You don’t know your partner’s sexual history
• You have ever had unprotected sex
• You have symptoms such as warts,sores, burning or redness in your genital area

How do I talk to my healthcare provider about this? I don't know where to start.
If your healthcare provider doesn’t ask about your risk for STIs, bring it up. Remember, you don't need to make apologies for taking care of your sexual health.

Tell your provider you would like to discuss your health concerns. If your provider uses medical terms you don’t understand, ask for an explanation. You have a right to understand words related to your health. Here are a couple of conversation starters:

“I have a new boyfriend and we haven’t been using condoms every time. Am I at risk for a sexually transmitted infection?”

“My girlfriend found out she has genital warts. I’d like to be checked for warts and other STIs.”

What do I need to tell my healthcare provider?
Your provider needs to know some personal information about you so that she or he can assess your risk for STIs and decide what tests to order. You may want to talk to your provider about:

• Your sexual history
• Your current sexual practices
• Your condom use
• Any symptoms you have
• If you could be pregnant

What questions should I ask?
It may help to bring a list of questions to your office visit. You also may want to write down the information you learn. The following are some questions you may want to ask:

• Could I have an STI and not know it?
• How often should I be tested for STIs?
• (for women) How often should I have a Pap test?
• How can I protect myself and my partner?