It sounds like you're very stressed about this. I understand what you're saying and I truly hope some of the information here will be helpful for you.
First, please know the Pap smear is not a specific STD test. That test is only looking for abnormal epithelial cells that grow on your cervix. It is not a test that was intended for chlamydia.
You should probably inquire with your healthcare provider if they have, in fact, done a chlamydia test.
Another possibility is that the antibiotics you took may have cured you before your partner. Therefore, there is a possibility of what we call "ping-ponging" the infection back and forth to each other. So, you may have become reinfected before your spouse was cured.
I would encourage you to speak with your healthcare provider to make sure that either of you were not reinfected or that the diagnosis they gave you was correct.
I hope this helps.