Hello I am so glad I found this site I hope I get a response soon,
I have been married for 5 years and with him for 6 years. We have always been faithful and Now I find out I have an STI!!!! I was never checked before I got married becuase I wasn't with many men and haven't ever had unprotected sex before. He says he got checked before we were together and wasn t with anyone after he got checked before me so I NEVER had any worries. I have had two children with him and am pregnant now. Thats why I found out!! I was asked at the time when I was pregnant before if I wanted an Std check and said NO, now this new dr didn't ask me he just did it. SO am I to believe I have had this for 6 years and had two babies and never knew it!!!
Am at risk for some sort of complications with this baby? I have noticed it was painful to have sex for the last two years, I just thought it was from having the last baby. I can tell you also that my hubby has very tender testicles and they are sumwhat swolle from time to time. Is this conformation that we have had it for 6 years and never knew it? Or is he a cheater and I am so stupid I never saw it??