first of all thanks for this site, it is very helpful. So, I have read that precum does not really have enough hiv to transfer to someone, is that true? Also, how long does hiv survive outside the body? Ever since I did some stuff I have been in constant state of anxiety.... I will get an hiv test in three weeks but the wait is torture.

are you worried about hiv from the handjob you previously posted about?

betsy

hey so well there was that, but the day before that I had mutually masturbated with another guy. Again, both of us had condoms on, but this time we jacked each other off, sometime me jacking him and then myself and sometimes he himself and then me. After a while I took my condom off and jacked myself off, with him not touching me anymore. Also, he like touched my nipple while I was jacking off. So there is that, and the next day's handjob lol. So, theoretically, if the condom wasn't on right, (and I am not good with that I haven't done this much) it is possible that some precum maybe leaked through on to his or my hand and then on to my condom and I touched my condom, and later took it off and jacked myself off, maybe some transfered to my penis. He didn't ejaculate though, so if its true that precum does not get you hiv then it would be comforting.
I am quite a worried person, I come from a place that teaches abstinence only otherwise you get std's... I will take an hiv test to calm myself down in 15 days (after 25 days passed) but until then I am rather nervous. Its true that like 1/10 gay guys have hiv, so with that scary stat, its hard to sleep, because then there is a good chance one of the two may have had it.

You were not at risk for std's from either of these encounters. There is no need for any testing for std's from these.

You do worry too much!

betsy

Hmm, this just goes to show what I know. I always thought you could get an STD from doing stuff like this. Thanks for clearing this up Betsy.
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