You don't have constant ob's with genital herpes. Usually folks who think they are - just aren't getting the proper medical care from their doctors. I'm one of those folks who is the exception to the rule - I get loads of ob's. Even when I was getting 2 a month - I still had distinct periods of relief in between ob's. You most likely have something else going on - even if you do have genital herpes. Herpes certainly is not the only thing that can cause us gals issues down yonder. There are many, many other things that can cause us discomfort too. http://www.med.umich.edu/obgyn/vulva/vulvodyn.htm
is a website I like because it go over just how many other things are common causes of issues in us gals. Don't get stuck in the "it must be herpes" mind frame.