Actually I think I need you to come to my house - if you are clean nut, I can watch your son while you clean

Of course you'd probably walk into my house and fall over of a heart attack when you saw the dust ....lol.
no dirty clothes and towels aren't an issue either. everyone in a household should have their own towel, washcloth, toothbrush and razor but for reasons that have nothing to do with herpes. so many common germs are transmitted through sharing those. if your child uses your washcloth by accident though, not an issue. same with playing with your toothbrushes. dirty clothing, yuck factor only ( or stink factor if you are at my house and have sweaty athletic kids....lol ).
betsy