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PostPosted: Tue Jun 30, 2009 9:11 am 

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okay so this is hard to ask..In october i had to much to drink at a bar and someone took me home i woke up the next morning well naked..Being more worried about being pregant i didnt take an STD test... Well i started seeing someone about two months after that in May when i had my pap they discovred i had Chlamydia and they did do other test that were negative. Here is the think i was treated but the guy i was seeing was much older and i told him and he said he would see his doctor and i never thought anything more of it..But then a few days ago we broke up and i dont think he ever got treated because of comments he would make well you got treated and i gave blood awhile back and nothing was found..But here is the thing he isnt talking to me now are break up was bad. I did tell him i had it that he shld get treated and that i got treated so if he never got treated is that my fault shld i feel guilty about that. i dont want him to give it to someone else... What do i do?


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PostPosted: Tue Jun 30, 2009 3:34 pm 

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When you donate blood, you aren't tested for chlamydia.

Had you and your ex bf used condoms?

Pretty much there's not too much you can do at this point. He's a grown adult and is responsible for his own health. He's no longer your problem so stop feeling guilt and feel relieved that someone that is irresponsible about his own health and that of his partners is no longer a part of your life if you are sure he didn't follow up at all on this!

betsy

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PostPosted: Tue Jul 07, 2009 11:23 pm 

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im sure i just feel like its my fault since i gave it to him. not meaning to its not like i wanted to be attacked and get it but still i feel so bad like i did something


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 08, 2009 6:13 pm 

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How do you know you didn't get it from him?

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