Thank you so much for your advice. I'm going to take it to heart.
Just one question: For someone such as myself, who was diagnosed with gw by one doctor, had a biopsy performed which showed cell changes, but didn't show hpv effect, and had a second, more experienced doctor tell me that it likely wasn't gw, would you still want to know? In other words, given those facts, if I were your potential partner, is this something that you would want to know? Or, do you think that, on these facts, I would be opening up the proverbial can of worms for no good reason?
I think I probably know the answer, but your perspective would be great to hear.
p.s. - I think that was three questions