Hi Majormajor, I appreciate your postings and updates. Being newly diagnosed with hpv/gw, I am at a loss of how to tell my new partner. The past year has been really difficult and extremely stressful for me. I finally meet this wonderful new guy and bamm, this
. Never had an issue before. Can not even be sure if the gw was present when we were intimate or if it was because of it that I now have this problem. Words cannot even tell how bad I would feel if I gave it to him.
I did get treatment with TCA when I was told that I have this.
Now I do not know how to tell him. I know I need to but I do not want to sound like a babbling idiot either, because as uncomfortable and nervous as I am, I know I will have a difficult time telling him.
Avoidance is not helping, I know. You sounded like you had some success with telling your partner so any words of advise would be very much appreciated. My doctor is somewhat nonchalant about it, because she stated that it is very common, but I do not want to tell him that it is nothing to worry about.
Obviously alot of us on this forum are worried about it! Hard to think of ever having a normal sex life again
I guess I just want to be able to talk with my boyfriend in a way that will promote some understanding and not leave him hating me. (I really have strong feelings for him and I think the feeling is mutual) Just think that whenever something wonderful happens to me I just ruin it
Sorry, did not mean to go on so much, just very desparate for help on this!